As with any habit, the person has to make a commitment that they do want to stop. |
It's a rough time down here. Everybody is having acute stress responses. They're numb, they're crying. But who wouldn't be if you lost your house. |
Most people who describe the sucking feel that it soothes them, calms them, gives them comfort, focuses them. |
There is a sense of embarrassment and humiliation from it. |
They're not freaking out, though, and I'm impressed with how neighbor is helping neighbor. I see resilience and determination. |