...a disgruntled reflection on my own life as a sort of desperate improvisation in which I was constantly trying to make something coherent from conflicting elements to fit rapidly changing settings. |
Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten. |
Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live. |
Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers. |
Human beings do not eat nutrients, they eat food. |
No matter how happily a woman may be married, it always pleases her to discover that there is a really nice man who wishes she were not. |
Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain. |
Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving. |
The capacity to combine commitment with skepticism is essential to democracy. |
The Christian tradition was passed on to me as a great rich mixture, a bouillabaisse of human imagination and wonder brewed from the richness of individual lives. |
The family is changing, not disappearing. We have to broaden our understanding of it, look for the new metaphors. |
The timing of death, like the ending of a story, gives a changed meaning to what preceded it. |
There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can't think without metaphors. |