I believe there should be required family counseling before all deployments. |
I have heard a lot of soldiers say that the military ruined their lives. But it wasn't the military; it was the unresolved problem that exacerbated the situation. Sometimes a simple, unresolved issue can escalate in 18 months. |
Marriages that are very stable when the soldier deploys have a much better chance of surviving than those where there are some type of unresolved issues. |