All this stuff is backward engineered from what works. Nobody sat at a computer and invented these techniques. They watched guys who are successful and broke it down to what works. |
Don't even think about it and just do it. If you don't, you'll be regretting it the rest of the weekend. |
I had clearly become one. When I talked to a woman, the room went silent. The guys leaned in close to hear what I was saying, pulling out notebooks to write my words down and commit them to memory. |
I had to go through this because men never ask for help. And they never take a good, hard look at themselves to figure out what's broken, what's not effective, what's not working. |
I really felt like it turned into Lord of the Flies or something at the end. |
I totally understand all the bad press, ... It's not about the book, but the ideas in it and the way these guys speak. But on the other hand, this is how these guys speak when they're together. So if I wrote a book that was unassailable in that direction, it wouldn't be an honest book ... if a guy was open about his sexual feelings all the time, he would become a total outcast. |
I was one of them. I understand what they're going through. |
I'm not worried about it because guys will always need to find a way to meet women. Attraction is always the same. You can't help it. You can't disarm that. |
It's almost like this men's self-help movement. |
See that girl over there with the pink shirt? ... I think she's, like, the hottest girl in the whole place. |
The first night we go out, the students will walk in and crash and burn because they don't have a clue yet. The second day is more about the students and they'll go and do openers and do OK, and the third day is kind of fun. On the third day, they actually start to have some success. People forget how petrified men are to talk to women they don't know. |
The modern player is totally under the radar. |
You may have missed your window because now she's with a guy. But go and approach her anyway. It's a two set. |