I sometimes tell guys to make it a point to know what color her eyes are. If you make a point to recognize what her eye color is, it means you've looked her in the eye. |
I think there is a lot to be said about first impressions, so making yourself look good and having a friendly greeting with somebody goes a long way. |
You can generally talk about many things, as long as it's not, you know, a turnoff or offensive. |
Your best hope is to be honest with the person. Admit you were just trying to make a good impression. |